The Church ESPOUSED to Jesus

“Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish. So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church. For we are members of His body, of His flesh and of His bones. As the Scriptures say, “A man leaves his father and mother and is joined to his wife, and the two are united into one.” This is a great mystery, but it is an illustration of the way Christ and the church are one.” (Ephesians 5:25-32)

The CHURCH (Bride) is currently espoused (engaged) to Jesus Christ (Bridegroom). That means that the CHURCH and Jesus are intended for marriage. 

Biblically, historically, an espousal was as fully binding as a marriage. Thus, unfaithfulness on the part of either the bride or the groom was legally viewed as adultery.

From a spiritual standpoint, adultery is claiming to love God while fostering a relationship with the world and the things of the world (includes other gods). God is no stranger to this unfaithfulness from His people (Jeremiah 3:20; Ezekiel 16:30-34; James 4:4-5) and even uses the life of His prophet Hosea to show His great love and faithfulness to His unfaithful people (Book of Hosea).

So where does the CHURCH stand today? I believe it is here, as Paul warned in his day:

“For I am jealous for you with the jealousy of God himself. I promised you as a pure bride to one husband—Christ. But I fear that somehow your pure and undivided devotion to Christ will be corrupted, just as Eve was deceived by the cunning ways of the serpent. You happily put up with whatever anyone tells you, even if they preach a different Jesus than the one we preach, or a different kind of Spirit than the one you received, or a different kind of gospel than the one you believed.” (2 Corinthians 11:2-4)

I’m not saying the entire CHURCH is in this state, but there are many born-again by the Spirit Christians who have been led astray with false doctrines and teachings. Paul came across this in his day, what more is there now!

It all boils down to a lack in KNOWLEDGE of God’s word, Who He is, and who we are in Him, coupled with a lack in UNDERSTANDING of His truth.

We have to KNOW GOD’s WORD! And I don’t just mean the scriptures, but the WORD MADE FLESH, our mighty Lord, Jesus Christ (John 1:14).

To KNOW is defined as to perceive directly; to recognize the nature of; to discern; to be acquainted or familiar with; to have experience of; to be aware of the truth or factuality of; to have a practical understanding of
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So I ask you “Do you KNOW Jesus?”

Did you KNOW that you can KNOW Jesus?

Just asking.

Many converts spend years not even KNOWING their Savior, much less WHO THEY ARE IN HIM.

Did you KNOW that Jesus is the Bridegroom and we, the CHURCH, are His Bride? That understanding alone should change your perspective of the relationship God has with His people.

You see, you come to KNOW someone by being in relationship with them. To be in relationship makes it more difficult to stray away from one another because you become invested in one another.

And trust me, God is invested in you! If you don’t believe that, here’s a few scriptures (out of multitudes) that reveal God’s love for mankind.

“But God demonstrates His own love toward us, in that while we were still sinners, Christ died for us.” (Romans 5:8)

“Beloved, let us love one another, for love is of God; and everyone who loves is born of God and knows God. He who does not love does not know God, for God is love. In this the love of God was manifested toward us, that God has sent His only begotten Son into the world, that we might live through Him. In this is love, not that we loved God, but that He loved us and sent His Son to be the propitiation for our sins.” (1 John 4:7-10)

“For I am persuaded that neither death nor life, nor angels nor principalities nor powers, nor things present nor things to come, nor height nor depth, nor any other created thing, shall be able to separate us from the love of God which is in Christ Jesus our Lord.” (Romans 8:38)

“But God, who is rich in mercy, because of His great love with which He loved us, even when we were dead in trespasses, made us alive together with Christ (by grace you have been saved), and raised us up together, and made us sit together in the heavenly places in Christ Jesus, that in the ages to come He might show the exceeding riches of His grace in His kindness toward us in Christ Jesus.” (Ephesians 2:4-7)

“Are not five sparrows sold for two copper coins? And not one of them is forgotten before God. But the very hairs of your head are all numbered. Do not fear therefore; you are of more value than many sparrows.” (Luke 12:6-7)

“For God so loved the world that He gave His only begotten Son, that whoever believes in Him should not perish but have everlasting life. For God did not send His Son into the world to condemn the world, but that the world through Him might be saved.” (John 3:16-17)

And that’s just the tip of the iceberg!

Think on this, that God, Who created us, and knew that we would fall into sin, made the way of our redemption before we were even created! In Revelation 13:8 Jesus is referred to as the Lamb slain from the foundations of the world. And Peter tells us in 1 Peter 1:18-21 that:

“knowing that you were not redeemed with corruptible things, like silver or gold, from your aimless conduct received by tradition from your fathers, but with the precious blood of Christ, as of a lamb without blemish and without spot. He indeed was foreordained before the foundation of the world, but was manifest in these last times for you who through Him believe in God, who raised Him from the dead and gave Him glory, so that your faith and hope are in God.”

So how do you get to KNOW the LORD? I mean, He already KNOWS us. Where does one start in getting to know God?

Its not too difficult.

Spend time with Him.

Spend time with Him in His word and in prayer. Talk to Him for goodness sake! He wants to hear from you, and most importantly, He wants you to learn to hear from Him.

His word says that if you “draw near to Him, He will draw near to you” (James 4:8). And I’ve always found this to be true!

There is an open invitation from God throughout the entire Bible for us to “Come” to Him, to be reconciled back to Him.

“Now all things are of God, who has reconciled us to Himself through Jesus Christ, and has given us the ministry of reconciliation, that is, that God was in Christ reconciling the world to Himself, not imputing their trespasses to them, and has committed to us the word of reconciliation.” (2 Corinthians 5:18-19)

So, if you set yourself to seek Him with all your heart, He will be found (just a side note: He’s never far from you 😊).

As you seek God, you come to KNOW more and more of Him. And when you KNOW God, you cannot help but love Him. Paul tells us in Romans 5:5 that God’s love has been “poured out in our hearts by the Holy Spirit who was given to us.”

This scripture alludes even further the depth of relationship God has with those who are in Christ Jesus. He has given us the gift of His Holy Spirit, Who is with us always and Who reveals to us the heart and character of God.

This act of gift-giving is actually a major part of a betrothal, in that the Bridegroom presents the Bride with gifts. But only after paying her dowry.

Did you know that biblically, historically, the Bridegroom paid a dowry price for the bride? The dowry sealed the betrothal and led to the bridegroom pledging gifts to the bride.

Well what do you know….God has already paid our dowry price!

“For you were bought at a price; therefore glorify God in your body and in your spirit, which are God's.” (1 Corinthians 6:20)

“knowing that you were not redeemed (purchased) with corruptible things, like silver or gold .... but with the precious blood of Christ, as of a lamb without blemish and without spot.” (1 Peter 1:18-19)

And He has given us a GREAT GIFT along with a MARVELOUS PLEDGE….

Jesus said "And I will pray the Father, and He will give you another Helper (the Holy Spirit), that He may abide with you forever” (John 14:16)

God has “set his seal of ownership on us, and put his Spirit in our hearts as a deposit, guaranteeing what is to come.” (2 Corinthians 1:22)

Jesus promised “I go to prepare a place for you. And if I go and prepare a place for you, I will come again and receive you to Myself; that where I am, there you may be also.” (John 14:3)

Let’s face it! Our God is TOTALLY devoted to us. Who else has loved us with such a perfect, all-consuming, never-ending, longsuffering love? The answer: No one.

So knowing all this, one has to wonder how people in the CHURCH have been so easily swayed and deceived into straying away from Jesus Christ?

Again I believe it all boils down to a lack of relationship with Jesus, which comes from a lack of knowledge of Him. Because if you KNOW Him, you can’t help but love Him, and if you love Him you become one with Him.

Jesus said that if we abide in Him, He would abide in us. (John 15:4)

He went on to say “As the Father loved Me, I also have loved you; abide in My love. If you keep My commandments, you will abide in My love, just as I have kept My Father’s commandments and abide in His love.” (John 15:9:10)

I encourage you today to not let your passionate fire and zeal for the LORD burn out. In a marriage, you have to be intentional in keeping the relationship strong and healthy. The same goes for our relationship with God. We have to be intentional in spending time with Him, seeking to KNOW more and more of Him. Be intentional with your prayer life. Be intentional with your worship. Don’t wait to do those things when you “FEEL” like it. Because I can guarantee you that there will be days you won’t “FEEL” like pressing in through prayer, or reading your Bible, or singing hymns and songs of praise to God.

But I can tell you this, when you set your heart on God, He will help make up for your deficiencies.

Paul learned this when faced with a “thorn in the flesh.” Paul wrote, “And He [the LORD] said to me, “My grace is sufficient for you, for My strength is made perfect in weakness.” Therefore most gladly I will rather boast in my infirmities, that the power of Christ may rest upon me. Therefore I take pleasure in infirmities, in reproaches, in needs, in persecutions, in distresses, for Christ’s sake. For when I am weak, then I am strong.”

Stay close to Jesus. He is all you will ever need and as you come to KNOW Him you’ll discover that He is all you could ever want. Only He can satisfy you. Only He can sustain you. He is our Bridegroom and loves us with a love more powerful than death and the grave. Never having committed sin, He overcame it and paid the price for our sins.

“Greater love hath no man than this, that a man lay down his life for his friends.” (John 15:13)

What more could anyone ask for? We’ve got the BEST BRIDEGROOM EVER!!!!

So I urge you today, dig into the word of God. Search the scriptures as diligently as you have been searching your social media pages. Let that desire to KNOW the things of the world SHIFT into a desire to KNOW GOD! I can promise you that there is nothing better than KNOWING the Lord. He has become my EVERYTHING and I no longer find fulfillment in the things of this world. My heart is set on Jesus and His Kingdom. I encourage you to do the same. He will NOT disappoint!!!


God bless you!


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